It's completely valid to voice your reservations about religious aspects, such as not believing in G-d or that you haven’t felt like setting foot in synagogue since your bar mitzvah. I hear you. While I won't remain neutral – after all, I host a podcast dedicated to Jewish weddings – I'm here to provide information that will hopefully help you feel secure in whatever decision you end up making.

From Google to Jewish Geography, there are so many ways to find a rabbi for your Jewish or Interfaith Wedding. Your wedding professionals, even if they're not Jewish, can be a treasure trove of recommendations. And don't hesitate to ask your wedding planner, vendors, or even acquaintances for their insights.

Don’t be afraid to start along the “Trail of Rabbis.” Each step brings you closer to finding the rabbi who'll create a heartfelt and unforgettable ceremony, one that's perfect for you and your partner. Happy hunting, and warm wishes on your wedding planning journey!

So, you’ve decided to look for a rabbi to officiate your Jewish or interfaith wedding. Congratulations! Let’s get started.

Unfortunately, it’s not as simple as punching some things into Google and sending some emails. You need to do a little work on your end before you can even articulate what you’re looking for in a rabbi.