While the circling ritual is rich in symbolism, it's not without potential concerns. My couples are most commonly worried about tripping during the process, and ruining clothing/heirlooms/photos. Most of all, brides and grooms like to feel polished and pulled-together on their big day, and doing this awkward and unfamiliar choreography can really ruin that for a lot of people. Another common concern is time - especially if a couple doesn’t plan a special song or reading for this time, it can feel like walking in these circles will last FOREVER.

(image courtesey of Shelly Pate Photography)

Circling is not exclusive to Jewish weddings; it finds echoes in various cultures. Greek weddings involve a triple-circle dance, symbolizing the couple's journey. Indian weddings, particularly in the North, incorporate seven circles around a sacred fire, each representing blessings. Even Pagan ceremonies, like Handfasting, include a circle of guests binding hands around the couple.

Many couples have gone to the trouble to find the perfect ketubah - Jewish wedding contract - for their wedding. Now that it’s here…HOW do we sign it?

Rabbi LeighAnn, a rabbi for Jewish and interfaith weddings, walks you through the things to consider when planning your ketubah signing ceremony.

There are so many cross-cultural commonalities when it comes to weddings. Honoring our families, parental guidance, symbolic object exchanges, making public promises - these are universal themes. So, integrating different customs into your wedding isn't as challenging as it may seem.

Premarital counseling is one of the most common questions I receive from couples planning their weddings, especially those who are hesitant about the idea. I understand; wedding planning is a whirlwind of cake tastings, venue tours, meetings with vendors, and family gatherings. The thought of adding more to the mix can be overwhelming. But let's unpack this topic and address your questions and concerns.

First and foremost, do I require premarital counseling from my couples? The answer is a straightforward "No." I do not require premarital counseling, nor do I offer it as part of my wedding officiant services. However, I do recommend it in certain cases, and here's where it gets a bit more nuanced—it depends.

Okay, so you've got a list of potential rabbis, and you're feeling pretty excited about a few of them. Now's the time to dig a little deeper. Take a moment to consider what you're looking for in terms of the rabbi's approach.

It's completely valid to voice your reservations about religious aspects, such as not believing in G-d or that you haven’t felt like setting foot in synagogue since your bar mitzvah. I hear you. While I won't remain neutral – after all, I host a podcast dedicated to Jewish weddings – I'm here to provide information that will hopefully help you feel secure in whatever decision you end up making.

From Google to Jewish Geography, there are so many ways to find a rabbi for your Jewish or Interfaith Wedding. Your wedding professionals, even if they're not Jewish, can be a treasure trove of recommendations. And don't hesitate to ask your wedding planner, vendors, or even acquaintances for their insights.

Don’t be afraid to start along the “Trail of Rabbis.” Each step brings you closer to finding the rabbi who'll create a heartfelt and unforgettable ceremony, one that's perfect for you and your partner. Happy hunting, and warm wishes on your wedding planning journey!